I Ask you to take all, that life offers you, as it is, good or bad.
Please try to accept all that comes with an open, good heart and understanding.
It is hard, but keeps you stay strong whatever happens. And sometimes your help needen in the last minutes! If you are worried and tired of all you cannot help only if you remain the same they know, as happy and reliable.
God doesn't cause pain to anyone.
I wish you all the best, and I ask for some assistance of my God to your family!