Ed
You were right. I thought the problem solved but got another call and went back.
As stated in previous post I had checked the mter socket had power co. replace splices at w.h. so I decided to run a single piece of wire from the panel neatral bar outside to the guide wire supporting the pole in the street and no more dimming and blinking.
So I took the meter out of the meter socket again and the neutrals, both copper looked fine. I removed both wires from their terminations and relized they needed a good brushing with steel brush and sand paper.
After checking the voltages back at the panel I did not get the fluxuations I had before and everything has worked fine since.
My previous fix must have been a coinsidence especially where this was a intermitten problem.
Thanks again for your time and comments.
Mike