well, I have learned something from the old timers and my dad you can never spend to much time with your family. Every older guy i know says " I wish i had spent more time with my Kids", believe me they grow fast, i have 4 the oldest is 9 and youngest is my little princess 1 and half, me and the wife go some were for a long weekend once a year either the lake or a nascar or outlaw sprint race and get a nice romantic cabin, as for the kids we go camping alot every summer, we just got back from a 4 day camping trip at lake erie.

an old man i once knew told me something that says it all, He said you know what happens while your making all your big plans life passes you by, get out and enjoy yourself and family once the kids are grown you cant get that time back, and if you didn't enjoy yourself and family then what was it all for.

Like my boss says How many people do you know that are on there death bed that say they wish they would have worked more.

sorry so much type, spend time with your family, the kids dont want money they want YOU!!!!