I need to post a wiring diagram. That relay and the Omron I've been using might both work but I might not be placing it in the circuit correctly. The basics are that if either the exit or entrance momentary control is utilized a relay closes and powers a solid state relay which in turn opens the circuit for the strike (fail safe) and closes the circuit for the pneumatic control. I need to delay the pneumatic just brief enough that the strike can't get stuck closed by the door pushing on it before it releases.
I know where the delay is required and can envision how everything is wired except for how to reset the Omron (or other relay).