Reno. I get your point and I agree this site is for discussion between experts and not necessarily this subject. I am an amateur radio operator and find the discussion stimulating as I have learned some other sources for this subject. While the lack of aknowledgment from the poster is a little irritating I have still gleaned some new information.
Radiationman
You have been given the resources and links to the information you seek but if you really want to know what the emmissions are in your apartment then get a person with the test equipment to take direct readings in your living space and only those measurments can determine whether the levels of exposure are dangerous to you. You have enough to see if those levels are considered dangerous.
An RF meter in the frequency range of the output of that cell tower and you will know the exposure levels that effect you. Then you can take that information and debate it with the radio nutbars and real experts.
I think your generic questions have been addressed but the questions about your apartment cannot be answered any better than we have already.
I would not avoid living in an apartment near a cell tower. I might avoid a radio station transmitting at 50,000 watts especially if I did not like their programming ;-)
respectfully
Mshea