My condolences...
My wife and I have stopped opening any attachment that isn't a .jpg, .mov, or .gif unless we knew it was coming. Especially wary of .exe and .zip files that even come from people we know.
I got Troj_Hybris.dll once, but caught it in time. ("Hey! Where's the picture?...Oh Crap!") Got it again, but recognized the email and deleted it at once, then ran a virus scan. (I use
http://housecall.antivirus.com/housecall/start_pcc.asp which is always updated with the latest virus detection and cures...)
Scott35 has some horror stories too I think...