First off, a big thumbs up to the moderators for all of their hard work in keeping things under control here.
There are many topics I have been involved in where the debate was quite lively, but never offensive or lowered to the level of personal insults or bashing. (Like the Shared neutrals and panels in bedrooms, for example.)
Whether the Webmaster or any of the moderators disagree or agree with someone's opinion has nothing to do with the way that this Forum is moderated, and never has.
That is very true!! If it weren't, most of my posts in the threads I mentioned would have been deleted!
We all have our methods and reasons and everyone here has shown nothing but respect for that fact, and a willingness to discuss the differences of opinion.
I have made a few mistakes in the past, one was using a slang word which here in the U.S. has no real meaning, but is vulgar elsewhere. My post was edited and I got a very polite email from the moderator letting me know that the word had an objectionable meaning. No problem and no offence taken.
In another thread I posed a reply in which I feel helped to start the replies down the wrong path, despite the intention of making up a new and funny acronym (which I didn't explain in the post, that was the biggest mistake.) Again, after looking things over, I would have done it differently given the chance to correct it.
To kain10, I respectfully suggest that you learn from all the information in this thread, and elsewhere on this site. There are a lot of good people here who are willing to help and would value your input to any of the discussions.
Keep in mind that when posting on any forum, we cannot see your face or hear your voice to be able to fully understand the meaning of what is said, so you (and I) must choose words carefully, using smilies when necessary
to help make clear what we're trying to say.
So jump back in, share your experiences with us and you will learn a lot here. I sure have!!
Thanks everyone for putting up with this long post!
edited for spelling (as usual)
[This message has been edited by mxslick (edited 05-04-2006).]