Time to bring this up again!
David had an idea about IEC connectors as an intermediate step in an adaptor. I gave it a little thought:
Here is the idea:
1.) A proper listed/approved local plug (NEMA, Schuko etc.) with grounded 10A 250V / 15A 125V IEC 320 connector on the other back.
You can buy this type of adaptor already:
These are compact compared to conventional adaptors.
2.) The second part is simply a conventional trailing socket with two or three sockets. Listed/approved of course. Instead of the ordinary plug, it has an IEC connector on the cord which mates with the adaptor.
3.) If you have a transformer this is simply connected between the adaptor and the trailing socket. It has a cord with a male IEC connector as input and a female IEC connector on the transformer itself where you plug in the trailing socket.
4.) There is an ungrounded IEC connector too, although rarely used. This should be used on ungrounded plugs. Either you use a trailing socket that only accepts ungrounded plugs or you add an ungrounded IEC to grounded IEC adaptor. It would simply consist of an RCD/GFCI and the connectors. Even with the RCD it can be made very small and robust.
The result? A system where the grounding can't be bypassed unless you have ground fault protection. In addition, you have two or three proper sockets to plug into. Lastly, the plug you insert into the foreign socket fits correctly and is lightweight.
As a bonus, you have a modular system that can be sold in any country of the world. Only one type of transformer is necessary for the whole world: 115/230V Step up/step down. (Still in different sizes, of course)